There will most likely
be a point in your life in which you will have to public speak. This may be for
a class presentation, a wedding toast, or a banquet. Whatever the case may be,
you should always be ready to speak in front of others. However, fear sometimes
gets in the way of confidence which intervenes with the overall message you are
attempting to tell. To combat that fear, here are some ways to overcome your
fear of public speaking…
· Organize and
preparation are key to a good speech. When your materials are organized it
helps you to relax and stay calm. The reduction of anxiety is made by keeping
your thoughts clear and organized. Make sure you do not procrastinate because
this is a speech. A speech must have a good amount of preparation time which
includes practice time.
·
Practice.
Practice. Practice. Without practice, your speech will never be up to par. Practice
in front of the mirror, by recording yourself, or saying it in front of others
you trust. Then practice again. But don’t over practice because this could cause
a rigidness in your speech and a fumbling in your words since you did not say
it the way you practiced it. Keep your speech flowing nicely and casually but
not memorized word for word. This is done by an immense amount of practicing.
·
Keep your speech
rhythmic and flowing cohesively. By establishing a good speaking pattern, your
fear will be decreased since you have an overall tone which goes hand in hand with
one another. When your tone is broken up by differences this increases anxiety
since it is not unified. We are creatures of habit which flows into sameness, even
in our speaking. This means we must obtain a pattern which flows throughout the
duration of the speech.
·
Do not worry
what others may think. This is easier said than done and you have probably
heard this more times than you can count. However, it is an extremely important
aspect to speaking. When worry enters your mind, words become fumbled and
disordered. For the entirety of your speech, the elimination of fear and
rejection must be completely extracted from your mind. Confidence is key when
speaking. Just know that you having the courage to speak in the first place
will ultimately lead you into the courage you need to complete your speech.
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